1. Introduction: Foundations for Kingdom-Focused Relationships and Purposeful Singleness
Embracing each stage of interaction with wisdom and self-awareness helps Gen Z ladies lay a foundation for godly relationships and purposeful singleness, guiding them to honor God in their choices and aspirations.
Scripture Reference: Proverbs 4:7 – “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.” This verse encourages young women to seek wisdom as they navigate relationships and passions.
2. The Four Phases of Kingdom-Focused Relationships
Friendship: The beginning of any meaningful connection, where values, compatibility, and mutual respect are explored.
Relationship: A deepened connection, discerning if friendship has potential for something more.
Courtship: A committed phase focused on intentional growth, shared purpose, and prayer.
Marriage: The covenant relationship representing commitment, service, and partnership in God's design.
Scripture Reference: Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything, there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” This reminds us to honor each stage as God intended.
3. Stages of Interaction Before Committed Engagement
Eye-to-Eye: Initial attraction where values and interests are observed.
Eye-to-Body: A further look into the other’s presence and expressions.
Voice-to-Voice: Communication that reveals personality, compatibility, and values.
Hand-to-Body: Physical contact, approached with discernment and a commitment to honoring God.
Scripture Reference: 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 – “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit…? Therefore honor God with your bodies.” This verse encourages respect and intentionality in physical interactions.
4. Kingdom Self-Awareness for Personal and Relationship Growth
Known Self: Traits known to oneself and others, representing one’s authentic self.
Unknown Self: Potential and purpose yet to be revealed.
Blind Self: Qualities others see but may be unknown to oneself, revealed through trusted relationships.
Hidden Self: Personal aspects that require prayer and wisdom for proper sharing.
Scripture Reference: Psalm 139:23-24 – “Search me, O God, and know my heart… and lead me in the way everlasting.” This verse emphasizes seeking God for self-discovery and growth.
5. Four Stages of Connection Development
Meeting Stage: The initial encounter that sparks interest.
Infatuation Stage: Emotional excitement, to be approached with discernment.
Reality Stage: Gaining a balanced view of each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
Decision Stage: Choosing to move forward based on shared values and God’s guidance.
Scripture Reference: Luke 14:28 – “For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost…?” This aligns with making thoughtful, prayerful decisions in relationships.
6. Five Key Influences for Kingdom Growth and Balance
Spiritual Fathers: Providing wisdom, guidance, and spiritual support.
Hebrews 13:7 – “Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.”
Mentors: Guiding career and life development.
Proverbs 11:14 – “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.”
Teachers: Imparting knowledge and skills.
Proverbs 9:9 – “Instruct the wise, and they will be wiser still; teach the righteous, and they will add to their learning.”
Friends: Offering support, encouragement, and accountability.
Proverbs 27:17 – “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
Enemies: Building resilience and clarity of purpose.
Matthew 5:44 – “But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
7. Purposeful S:ingleness and Preparedness
Singleness as Preparation In Genesis 2:18-23, God’s creation of Eve for Adam was intentional. Before companionship, Adam had a season of singleness where he grew in purpose. Singleness, similarly, is a time for growth and becoming whole in Christ.
The Value of Wholeness: Singleness allows for spiritual and emotional maturity, fostering a grounded identity in God.
Scripture Reference: Genesis 2:18-23 emphasizes that God’s design for companionship is purposeful and involves preparation. Embracing singleness helps lay the foundation for a godly, balanced partnership.
The Winning Wisdom of Singleness
Just as Adam’s season of singleness was intentional, Gen Z ladies are encouraged to view singleness as a period for Kingdom growth, spiritual maturity, and self-awareness.
By focusing on these elements, young women can navigate relationships with purpose, managing passions and choices in alignment with Kingdom values.
This title and framework underscore that embracing singleness with Kingdom wisdom prepares Gen Z ladies for future relationships built on purpose, wholeness, and alignment with God’s plan.
Kay Daniels
CCYI GLOBAL OUTREACHES
Raising a new breed of kingdom youths
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