Mastering Discernment: The Key to Not Being Taken for Granted by Olukayode J Daniels

Mastering Discernment: The Key to Not Being Taken for Granted

1. The Need for Discernment

• Proverbs 4:7 – "Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding."
  → Understanding people requires wisdom and insight. A discerning heart helps you see beyond words into intentions.

• Proverbs 14:15 – "The simple believeth every word: but the prudent man looketh well to his going."
  → Naïve people take everything at face value, but those who are prudent read between the lines.

2. The Power of Perception

• 1 Samuel 16:7 – "For the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart."
  → Developing godly perception allows you to discern people’s true motives beyond their outward expressions.

• Hebrews 5:14 – "But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil."
  → Discernment is sharpened by practice and spiritual maturity.

3. Avoiding Deception and Manipulation

• Matthew 10:16 – "Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves."
  → Jesus advised wisdom and awareness because deception is common in the world.

• 2 Corinthians 11:14 – "And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light."
  → Not everyone who appears trustworthy has good intentions. Learning to read people helps avoid deception.

4. Handling People Wisely

• Proverbs 27:23 – "Be thou diligent to know the state of thy flocks, and look well to thy herds."
  → This principle extends to relationships—be intentional about understanding those around you.

• John 2:24-25 – "But Jesus did not commit himself unto them, because he knew all men, and needed not that any should testify of man: for he knew what was in man."
  → Jesus had deep discernment of people’s true nature, so He wasn’t easily misled.

Conclusion

Mastering the ability to read people through wisdom, discernment, and spiritual sensitivity ensures that no one takes you for granted. It prevents manipulation, fosters wise decision-making, and enables godly interactions.