(I’m not going to sound to professional in mine)
Toxic relationships, what are they, is it when a father beats wife, or them a girl purposely leads on a friend who she knows likes her, but has no interest, YES, but it is also more than that
From our scripture, it seems to follow the same pattern, abusive person, lack of consent, but there is also a deeper story here, a lack of love
After Amnon had defiled her, he openly stated that he hated her, there was no real love there, love is an unconditional element, therefore to love someone for something is not love at all, after all, what reason did Jesus have to love us.
The lesson here is any relationship where the bond is built off of what can be gained, is not a relationship built on real love, it have become so normalize in our world that most people word call what I just defined business,
in proper sense, business isn’t toxic, you don’t do it to make friends, but when the relationship IS FOR PERSONAL BONDING, and built off of what one can provide, I would full heartedly say that it is an unhealthy relationship
God bless my friends
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