Building Emotional Intelligence by Florence

BUILDING EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCEINTELLIGENCE by Florence

Ability to feelings and emotions define your emotional intelligence. 

Be intentional about what you allow....

A spiritual man has the holy Spirit inside of him. 

The soul has to be wired up to receive from the Holy Spirit. 

You must be able to understand God and the emotions of other people. 

You cannot effectively deciple people if you lack emotional intelligence. 

4 pillars of emotional Intelligence

1. Self awareness 

You must come to understand yourself ....

2. Love people 

Don't just see people from where you are, also see them from where they are. 

Learn to bear with people. 

Endeavour to pray for people. 

Do not be quick to cut people off. 

 Create boundaries...

Signs of low emotional intelligence 

* Avoid low self esteem 

* Pride 

* Timidity or lack of boldness. 

FAMING NAMING AND TAMING EMOTIONS by Venessa

Building Emotional Intelligence at Feast of Greatness Inspirational Summit by Vanessa. 

Characteristics of Emotional Intelligence

1. Self awareness. 

Be aware of yourself. 

IQ might get you into the university but it is EI that guarantees success. 

2. Self Regulation

You are able to hold it in....

You delay your anger or negative response. 

Learn to selah - self Regulation. 

3. Social awareness or empathy.

Understand the emotions and concerns of other people. 

4. Relationship management 

Minding the way you react. 

Learn to retrospect or reflect. 

To develop your emotional intelligence

1. Picture yourself from God's word. 

Romans 12:2

Proverbs 12:18

Learn how to respond and not just react. 

Calm down before you make comments. 

Proverbs 29:11, Gal 5:22

Your opinion may be valid but not necessary.

Understand body languages...changing attitudes ...

When you name it, you will be able to tame it.